Sorry I’ve been gone… I GOT A JOB THO

I’m back again. I’ve been gone for so long because I GOT A FULL TIME JOB!!!!!!!!!!

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I am now a customer care analyst at a startup company, Nurx. Here’s a shameless plug for my job: Nurx is an online service that makes getting birth control and PReP easy and quick. You can get your prescription and medication through us and then it will be shipped to your door! I really like it so far and I’m learning about the wonders of healthcare and insurance.

My current problem is that I don’t get paid until the end of the month which is terrible. I hate that you have to skip a payday when you first start a job. I WANT MY MONEY NOW. I need it for stuff and things.

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Okay so here’s a list of everything I’ve been watching since I’ve been gone…

  • The Walking Dead (the American classic)
  • Boys Over Flowers (a very interesting Korean Drama)
  • Kingdom (NICK JONAS IS A BOXER… need I say more?)
  • The Bachelorette (RACHEL PICKED THE WRONG MAN)
  • Younger (Hilary 4ever)
  • Annabelle: Creation and other movies I can’t remember

I will definitely be writing some posts about these shows (and maybe The Conjuring universe) soon so be on the look out!

Thanks for hanging in while I adjusted to my new adult life.

This is Old News, but “Younger” is Amazing!

So I’ve given in and applied to a job at the mall. Yes, I’m throwing it back to high school and I may be working a minimum wage job. The scary thing is I don’t mind because I’m that desperate for a job. The couple of jobs where I got interviews didn’t work out and I think it’s mostly because I don’t have “experience.” I honestly think that employers want 40 year old women to apply to these jobs. Even entry level jobs require some experience. And for the record, I have had jobs before. My job (and internships!!!!!!!!!!) at school should count.

I just started watching the show Younger. I’m aware that I’m very late to this party. This show actually premiered in 2015 and is currently on it’s 4th season. Younger is about Liza, a 40 year old woman who is trying to make in the publishing business. Like many older women, she stopped her career to have children. When she realizes that being 40 isn’t helping her at all, Liza disguises herself as a 26 year old. The show sounds crazy, but thanks to Hilary Duff (YEAH THAT’S RIGHT) and Sutton Foster, who plays Liza, the storyline totally works.

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Hilary Duff and Sutton Foster

The great thing about this show is that it not only depicts an older woman’s struggle, but the post grad struggles too.

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Liza and Kelsey (Hilary Duff’s character) experience terrible bosses, making extra cash, dating, and even student loan debt. Hilary Duff plays an editor at the publishing company and Liza’s bff. I’m happy to say the Hilary is just as amazing now as in her Disney Channel days. She is gorgeous, smart, and fabulous. I think that her youthful perspective (and the fact that it’s Hilary FUCKING Duff) really draws in the post grad crowd.

I really enjoy this show because Liza and Kelsey are struggling, but they’re making it and that gives me hope. I will be as fabulous as Lizzie McGuire all grown up!

The first 3 seasons of Younger are available on Hulu.

 

My Glee Obsession

So I’ve been away for so long because of my renewed obsession with Glee. I recently started rewatching the show from the beginning because it’s a classic. Not in the typical sense of the word, but it created a cultural phenomenon and opened the door for shows that included singing like Galavant, Empire, live TV musicals, and that one season of American Horror Story (Freak Show).

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The snarky and quirky tone was very different from anything else on television. And this show tackled issues that many shows were just beginning to acknowledge like sexual orientation, discrimination, and gender. The show’s political correctness and campy style often made it seem ridiculous. Those qualities were actually what contributed to the genius of it. The show sometimes didn’t make any sense and had some serious continuity issues (people literally changed ages and there was NO EXPLANATION) , but it made some really good points about very serious issues.

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After rewatching the whole show, I can say that Glee was able to successfully continue after graduating their main characters, adding new characters, and moving half the cast to New York City. Not many shows are able to make the transition from high school drama to adult drama. Glee managed to find a perfect balance between the high school world and college life in New York City. By the way the whole series is on Netflix if you’re looking to watch it all or only find a special themed episode.

Syracuse Summers

Syracuse summers are no joke. They are hot, sticky, and long. After moving into my new apartment (and meeting my roommates’ cats!!!), I have escaped to my boyfriend’s house in Oswego because:

a) He has air conditioning

b) He has wifi

c) I also love him

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Actual photo of me in the Syracuse heat

It turns out that air conditioning and wifi are essential to post grad life here in Syracuse. How else can I search for jobs, watch Netflix, and be comfortable? Even though this might be one of the snowiest cities in America, it has (imo) the hottest summers. This is coming from a girl who grew up without an air conditioner in my house (for 22 very long years). I’m very used to the heat, but I can’t stand it up in Syracuse. There is something so draining and unappetizing to the humidity here. The thing is outside and my apartment are still going to be hot. I cannot run away to the air conditioning (and my boyfriend’s house) forever.

Maybe the key to post grad life is learning to stand the heat long enough to get an ‘air conditioner’ (excuse my terrible analogy). My new job is just around the corner. I just have to have faith that it’s coming. I’ll keep applying and calling and working the random odd jobs until I finally get something full time with benefits. I guess that’s the American dream.

Packing up my Childhood Room… Is it Time to Start Screaming Yet?

I’m currently packing and getting ready to move in to my new apartment this coming weekend! (I’m screaming and crying at the same time.) And of course that involves the typical things like job hunting, changing my address on documents, and packing up my childhood room.

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It’s a very weird feeling that I will no longer be living at home. Even while I was away at school, I always came home in the summer and during breaks so it was still my room. This time around, I’m actually moving into a place. I signed A LEASE. It’s only for a year, but still. I have lived here for 22 years of my life. Even though my room was dirty and I always kinda of hated it, I had a place to come back to.

I have stuff from many, many obsessions over the course of my childhood: Elvis, Harry Potter, The Cheetah Girls, The Jonas Brothers, The Royal Family. The feeling of nostalgia is so strong. I’m so thankful for growing up in the Hudson Valley, that my parents let me be obsessed with so many random things, and that I had a happy childhood. This is sad, but it also feels amazing to finally get rid of everything I don’t use or need. A little girl (or boy) out there is gonna be so excited when they see all the stuff covered with cheetah prints and princesses. I’m obsessively hoarding all of my Harry Potter memorabilia because I want to show my kids the series and let them use the stuff.

Moving out is a part of growing up and I’m excited for the future. Plus my new apartment is so pretty!!

(I’ll add some pictures of my room and me as a child when I get the chance)

Reboots and Riverdale

I’ve been gone for so long! I found a job on Craigslist and survived. I stood around a Walmart for about 39 hours for a marketing company. It was terrible.

Okay, I love reboots! If done correctly, (i.e. The Mummy and Spider-Man: Homecoming are incorrect), they are one of my favorite things ever.

Correctness is determined by several factors: demand and originality. For example, there was literally no demand for The Mummy reboot. Brendan Fraser is so good and the original has such a sense of adventure. No one asked for Tom Cruise’s action remake. Originality is also very important for a remake. No one wants to see the same movie with different actors (I’m talking about you, Spider-Man: Homecoming.) And I get it the whole one big Marvel universe thing, but it’s a bit much. (Also Tobey and Kristen will always be my Peter and Mary Jane.)

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Onto to Riverdale!! This show is so interesting because it uses the idea and characters created by Archie Comics and gives it a Twin Peaks- esque style. Instead of being a wholesome 1950’s high school drama, Riverdale is a modern teen thriller.

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Riverdale is a small town where usually nothing bad happens. Over the summer, one of the popular high school students drowns in the river. This rocks the Riverdale community to its core. Betty and Jughead are determined to figure out what happened. Archie is preoccupied with girls and the choice between sports and music (Troy Bolton anyone?) Veronica is worried about fitting in and her dad’s ponzi scheme. The story is not only dramatic, but honestly compelling and continually has me guessing what’s going to happen next.

The great thing about this show is the little things they do to pay homage to the original comic books. Style is one of the biggest things that references the original. Betty and Veronica are styled in the classic archetypes: good girl and bad girl respectively. Veronica’s darker hair and more revealing clothing is contrasted with Betty’s high pony and pastel sweaters.

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My favorite part about the show so far is the dream like sequence that actually emulates the original Archie Comics. It’s so cool!!!

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The second season is now filming and I’m so excited for it to come out next summer!

The Money Problem

So I have an apartment and two amazing roommates. Now I have to figure out how to pay for it.

I started taking surveys on those sketchy websites and signed up to be an online mock juror. I’m pretty sure that most of these are scams and probably not worth my time, but I’m trying. I did try the more legitimate route of babysitting and other odd jobs, but it literally got me nowhere. Apparently no one wants to hire a college grad with her own car who is legitimately amazing with kids.

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The crazy thing is we all will stop at nothing to get money. The world is obsessed with money. God bless celebs and the rich people in the world because they all have what we want. The obvious reason is that everything today requires money. There isn’t very much that is free (except you know love, family, health, and happiness.)

I don’t hate the Kardashians or anyone else who is lucky to have money. The Kardashian/Jenners are smart and created businesses out of nothing. They definitely deserve props for that. My problem is when rich people and celebs don’t acknowledge that their money gives them privilege. I can’t buy $250 Good American jeans.

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Khloe Kardashian wearing a pair of jeans from her company, Good American

I can’t simply ask for a small loan of a million dollars from my dad. And this is where the gap becomes a problem. These people are selling a lifestyle that many of us simply can’t have or afford.

For now, I’ll just keep trying to make money and find a job. I don’t need those $250 jeans anyway.

Which comes first: moving or the job?

This is an ancient post graduate riddle. What come first: the move or the job?

So I’m moving back to Syracuse, home of Orange basketball (Jim Boeheim 4ever) and the Chiefs (no longer Sky Chiefs, people).

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Jim BAEheim- Syracuse University’s basketball coach

 

I’m currently home which is the Hudson Valley aka farmland and malls. I literally live near two farms. And by no means am I a city girl. I like to keep my trips to NYC to day trips only. The abundance of choices short circuits my brain. I just want something that’s in-between the two- like Syracuse.

My current dilemma is which comes first: getting a job or moving to Syracuse. Cause right now, I’m set to move in July and I still have no job. How will I pay for this place and support myself? On the other hand, no one will give me a job if I’m not in Syracuse. I think the important thing is to choose something and stick with it. This is the start of my career, my adult life, and my attempt at being independent from my parents.

As of right now, I’m still moving and I can’t wait! The uncertainty is a part of growing up, I guess. That doesn’t make it any less hard.

Life updates and The Handmaid’s Tale

I spoke too soon in my last post because I got a job interview! (Cue the gasps and excited screaming.) We shall see how the interview goes because I’m dreading the salary question: “how much would you like to be paid?” I don’t think anyone ever knows the correct answer. It’s just an awkward guessing game of numbers and I’m not excited to play it.

So onto my most recent obsession: The Handmaid’s Tale. It feels really weird to be saying this, but Hulu is making some great television. If you don’t already have a Hulu account then mooch off of someone else’s.

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Elisabeth Moss in The Handmaid’s Tale

The Handmaid’s Tale is about America in the near future where an extremist right wing group has taken over and created a simpler, more traditional society. In this future, fertility is rare so the few fertile women are rounded up and forced to become handmaids (have children for the right wing leaders). The story follows June (Elizabeth Moss) as she deals with being a handmaid.

So first things first, Elisabeth Moss is perfect. Of course, I already knew this because of her fantastic acting in Mad Men as Peggy Olson. I could go on and on about the transformation of Peggy from season 1 as timid secretary to season 7 boss ass head copy writer.

Her acting in both series has a remarkable authenticity and truth. Especially in this newer series, that must be hard to create considering June is living in dystopian America where she is forced to have children and only men can own property and participate in government. (Though that is beginning to sound like the present in a very scary way.) I don’t feel as if I’m watching Moss act. I’m really seeing June deal with her “job” as a handmaid. Props to Elisabeth Moss for creating such an interesting and somehow relatable character in sci-fi chaos.

I love The Handmaid’s Tale because the viewers are not only getting June’s point of view,
but Nick and Serena Joy’s as well. We slowly learn that Gilead, the oppressive government, has made victims out of everyone. Nick, a driver, and Serena Joy, a government official’s wife, have the chance to be heard and understood. It adds a nuance and sophistication to both their characters and the show.

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Serena Joy

The last thing I want to talk about is the coloring of the series. The muddy and dull colors create a stark landscape for The Handmaid’s Tale. All shades of browns, grays, and blues are included. The production designer has deliberately eliminated any bright colors. This creates a distinct difference between the present and flashbacks. June can be seen wearing a variety of colors in the flashbacks. In the present she is only allowed one: red. A sense of sorrow and detachment is ingrained through the whole society. No one is allowed to create close relationships because of the whistleblower aspect of their culture and this is reflected in their drab clothing.

The color chosen for each position, wife, ‘martha’ (housekeeper), and handmaid, represents their importance. The marthas wear grey because they are easily replaced. The wives wear teal because they’re higher class. The only ones who are cared for and cherished are the handmaids. They are, of course, dressed in red because they are important. They stand out starkly against the dull colors.

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June in her red uniform with a ‘martha’

I hope you enjoyed my thoughts on The Handmaid’s Tale. I really love it and I’ll be watching every week on Wednesdays when the new episodes come out!

Life as a college grad…

So here’s life as a college graduate:

  • no job
  • living with my parents
  • no car
  • currently obsessed with Sex And The City
  • a million in student debt to pay back

I’m trying to figure what I’m going to do with the rest of my life and it’s not going great. I’ve applied to countless jobs (feels like a million) and no one has called me back. (If you’re a future employer reading this: THANK YOU FOR HIRING ME.)

My mom has been on my back about trying to find a job. I feel like I’m back in high school especially since I keep wearing old clothes. I haven’t bothered to unpack anything so I’m wearing whatever I don’t bring to college aka anything  pre-2014.

The real reason for this post is Sex And The City. I was young when the show aired so I never got to see it. I never understood how people talked about it. I never got the references like “are you a Miranda or Samantha?”

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Now that I am a graduate, I have time for “frivolous things” like Sex And The City and I love it!

It portrays the lives of very different women and validates each of their perspectives. No matter if you’re crazy about sex like Samantha or more traditional like Charlotte, your feelings and point of view is represented. There is no mocking, only gentle playful poking fun at each woman’s life.

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The best part about this show is the fashion. When I watch the show, I can’t help but marvel at whatever Carrie Bradshaw is wearing. I love it because the outfits are sometimes so crazy but thecarrie-bradshaw-outfit-mavatar-19y’re so perfectly elegantly or cool. Carrie can pull off suspenders. I believe in her crazy outfits. They’re not just for this show… they’re realistic. In New York, you can wear whatever you want and Carrie pushes that rule to its limits. But in an amazing, fantastical, and inspiring way, of course.

And this is where I get my inspiration these days. No matter what’s going on with Charlotte, Miranda, Carrie, or Samantha, they always get through it and look fabulous!